Thursday, August 22, 2013
Dome's day
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Loss leader
The art of losing isn't hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.
Lose something every day. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.
Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and nnames and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.
I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last, of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.
I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.
—Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan't have lied. It's evident
the art of losing's not too hard to master
though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.
It's a fairly popular poem, and I think it can be misunderstood. The speaker isn't bulletproof. If you listen the tone is philosophical, not blithe. It doesn't deny the anxiety resulting from loss. It speaks of trying to channel it. (Write it!)
Then again in texture, in mood, it's not a heavy poem either. It achieves lightness in a paradoxical way. Which is an admission I'll never really be able to explain it.
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Bet you say that to all the girls
For more info on what she's talking about, see here.
I actually went to a seminar once where the instructor told us about this technique. To be fair, it was one among others. Still, though, he did confer on it a certain validity. I couldn't get into it, though. If negging works for you then, best case scenario, you become a psychologically abusive boyfriend. I just wasn't ready to commit to the abusive boyfriend lifestyle.
Friday, August 16, 2013
Friday Random Ten: Observed
1. Patsy Cline - True Love
2. Chic - Everybody Dance (Clap Your hands)
3. Elvis Costello & the Attractions - No Action
4. Radiohead - Hunting Bears
5. Yo La Tengo - Pass the Hatchet, I Think I'm Goodkind
6. R.E.M. - We Walk
7. Brian Eno - Dragging Me Backwards
8. Roxy Music - Trash
9. David Bowie - If You Can See Me
10. Sarah Vaughan - Can't Get Out of This Mood
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Sonnet fail
Nah.
~William Shakespeare on one of his less inspired days.
Actually I do plan to do another poetry post soon. I didn't get to it tonight because I was distracted by installing a new phone. (The answering machine I'd been using since 2000 or so was falling apart, and it seemed more efficient to have the phone and ans machine combined at this point.) So, something to look forward to there.
Monday, August 12, 2013
2 thoughts
2: I remember I was in college during the first World Trade Center attack. You know, the one with the truck full of explosives that didn't actually do what it set out to do. Not just in college, I was also on the school paper. A story occurred to me regarding possible upticks in actions against people of Middle Eastern descent. I thought getting some white supremacists on the record might lead to a good - or at least attention getting story - and I considered going undercover. Bad, bad idea in retrospect, and it's good that it died from inertia. While I'm fairly stoical about a lot of things, expressions of hatred do visibly get under my skin. Also even though I'm entirely of Protestant British Isles heritage, some byplay of genetics has left me looking faintly Jewish. Like both Jews and antisemites have noticed this. So I wasn't going to cut it as a fake neo-Nazi.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Saturday Random Ten: Musin' on a Saturday afternoon, evening, etc
Since the '96 telecommunications act, I've seen radio be taken over by megaconglomerates and subsequently shrink. The number of formats has become ever fewer and ever stricter. The influence of the medium has shrunk as well. When/if people still buy music, they're sometimes influenced by blogs and other press, sometimes by what plays in the background of TV shows. The number of people taking musical cues from radio has plummeted. This is sad, but also funny. By making the investment in multiple radio stations around the country, the corporations have made them less of a wise investment.
1. Neko Case - Vengeance Is Sleeping*
2. Yo La Tengo - The Room Got Heavy
3. Arcade Fire - No Cars Go
4. Diana Krall - I Guess I'll Hang My Tears Out to Dry
5. TV on the Radio - Halfway Home
6. Chic - Real People
7. Sarah Vaughan - Ain't Misbehaving
8. The Jimi Hendrix Experience - Third Stone From the Sun
9. Radiohead - Like Spinning Plates
10. Martin Denny - Caravan
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